Friday, February 20, 2009
Happy Birthday mumm
Our family decided to bring the BEST MUM to celebrate her birthday at Bugis because ah loo wanted to buy his shoes, lol. We had ayam penyet which what happened to be weekiat's favorite~!! I bought her a nice blue rose, a nice birthday card with the melody, folded 2 $50 hearts and place inside the card, followed by a mini chocoloate cake. She was overjoyed~!! hahha Not at the cake, nor at the flowers, not specifically at the card but at the 2 hearts. LOL. She didn't see it at first. Smiles. That won her over. Guess recently she has been really very worried about the side effects of the medicine that she has taken. The wish she has made was to have good health. I stand believing together with her for Longevity and divine health.
It was a simple weekday dinner but i truly enjoyed it. Smiles.
Thank you for being such a great mum all these year to me. You never fail to care. Sometimes I really wonder where does all your care, love and energy comes from. Then i termed those as under unconditional. On this special day, I just wanna say I really appreciate you I love you.
*video to be uploaded soon.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
My 5 Love language ranking
The Five Love Languages
My primary love language is probablyQuality Time
with a secondary love language being
Words of Affirmation.
Complete set of results
Quality Time: | 10 | |
Words of Affirmation: | 9 | |
Acts of Service: | 6 | |
Physical Touch: | 5 | |
Receiving Gifts: | 0 |
Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.Take the quiz
Valentine's day!
Today is Valentine day.. Sweet valentine.
Every where you go you see girls/guys holding bouquets of flowers, isn't that lovely. On my way to church, I met up with some of my members and He Yong. And he gives all of the girls a stalk of rose. Thats really nice. Girls love flowers, and I am one of them too! Today's service is really very touching. As pastor continues previous sermon on Romance, Man & Woman's needs, he begins sharing the other two needs of the both Gender.
For Woman:
- Affection
- Conversation
- Honest & Openness
- (next week)
- (next week)
For Man:
- Sexual fulfillment
- Recreational
- Physical attraction
- (next week)
- (next week)
At the point in time, I started to ponder and question about my perception of having a perfect marriage in the future. I guess I have painted a irrealistic picture of marriage, thinking that there will not be any problems. Oh well, for now, I would say, it takes effort to MAKE marriage work. First year will be the honey moon season, but as the years go by, many of the couples are just starting to get frustrated with one another. I pray that next time I will be in love with my spouse more and more each day ! :) Just like Pastor & Sun! Today as the married couples renewed their wedding vow, I felt so touched. :) Yet, I am thankful that being single has a huge amount of freedom to do anything too. There is a freedom that attached people don't have, and I have it with me now. I can do whatever I like now, and don't need to consider the feelings of another person for wad I do. Not saying that I want to take on celibacy, its just that I am not jealous at the couples but contented at where I am now. Of course, I want to find the right partner this year. smiles! =) Not anxious, at the right time it will come.
Its a short Saturday! =) Well, I am dated by the loviest people on earth, my parents. smiles. I really enjoyed myself today. We went to HaiKo Restaurant to eat Jap food. First time eating sashimi..man.. its gross. lols. Virgin trial. My mind and time were more coope up with work, pm, cg, that I seldom have a lot of time to rot and slack with my parents. Thank God for this day when I can just enjoy the lovely dinner with them. $320 meal. hahah I offered to pay but Dad foot the bill. Well, all of us truly enjoyed this day. Vday has an extra meaning to it today when you spend it with people you love the most. True?Sunday, February 8, 2009
love
Rebecca - age 8
Billy - age 4
Karl - age 5
Chrissy - age 6
Terri - age 4
Danny - age 7
Emily - age 8
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
Nikka - age 6
Noelle - age 7
Tommy - age 6
Cindy - age 8
Clare - age 6
Elaine-age 5
Chris - age 7
Mary Ann - age 4
Lauren - age 4
Karen - age 7
Mark - age 6
Jessica - age 8